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It’s never happened to me, and I’ve never heard of that, just moisturize them for a couple of days and if it doesn’t improve ask a dermatologist and see if you can get something for it.
There’s no way to prevent it, but you can always talk to your boyfriend and see if he’s comfortable having sex while you’re on your period. If he’s not, you’ll just have to wait (unless you don’t start), don’t fret love, whatever happens, happens.
Check her out in the mirror :)
Everyone is into different things, and since that’s something that seems to be hard to admit, I feel like you should be very grateful that he had the confidence in you to share that. I honestly think you should try it (if you’re not too uncomfortable) and I’m sure he’d be extremely appreciative that you would do that for him. Just look at this with an open mind and don’t be judgmental of him. If this is a fantasy of his, you making it a reality will mean the world to him.
It’ll be different every time, sometimes even when a girl has an orgasm she doesn’t feel fully satisfied (that’s why women can keep going and going and going) since a lot of the time there is no direct release. If you’re being pleased by the moments, then I wouldn’t worry about, your legs will shake more sometimes and less other times, mine do the same things. There are different orgasms too, personally, I can mainly only have clitoral orgasms, and I’ve only had one vaginal orgasm (and it took a looooong time, almost an hour of fingering). Clitoral orgasms are mainly what make you’re legs o bonkers, and then vaginal orgasms will cause your vagina to have multiple contractions that you can’t control.
Know what he likes (maybe he has a fetish?) I always talk about my feet when I want to turn my boyfriend on. If not, try telling him you’re lying in bed and that you wish he was there with you, that’d probably do the trick.
Awhh, love, don’t worry about that stuff, HE DOESN’T CARE. If he’s having sex with you, he obviously likes you, and your butt’s not going to change that! I do understand the insecurity though, I talk to my boyfriend about everything that bothers me and he quickly helps me to feel better. The truth is, I’m sure he didn’t even notice a slight thing like that, just let loose, it’s the only way to get over little things like that.
Everyone’s different! Some people’s are just like that, some people’s get like that, and some don’t; mine’s still “nice,” but that may not be forever.
Mastirbate, get used to the feeling. Also, when you’re about to cum, let your partner know, and slowdown, it’ll prevent you from cunning right then, and make you go longer :)
